Growing in His Image: A Godmother’s Transformation

February 23, 2025 at 10:08 p.m.
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By Esther Dutra, Fiat Ventures

Seventh Sunday in Ordinary Time

When I was seventeen, I was over the moon to be asked to be a godmother. My little cousin was the most adorable baby girl I’d ever seen, and I immediately started dreaming about all the fun things we’d do together. I imagined watching her take her first steps, hearing her first words (hopefully my name!), taking her to the playground, Mass, her first communion, and family vacations… all those precious moments we hope to share with the little ones we love.

But as excited as I was, I also felt the weight of the responsibility. Being a godmother isn’t just about being a fun and loving figure in her life; it means setting an example, showing her what Jesus’ love, kindness, and grace look like in action. It hit me that I had to be intentional, about my words, my actions, and my attitude—not just for me, but for her too. How could I possibly reflect Christ’s love to my little cousin?

In 1 Corinthians 15:45-49, St. Paul tells us that through Christ, we are invited to bear the image of the heavenly man. This transformation isn’t just an idea; it’s a reality that should manifest in our lives. Becoming a godmother was more than I expected—it became a personal journey of growth. I found myself reflecting more on my actions, my relationship with God, and how I could become more like Christ—not just for my goddaughter, but for Him.

The more I prayed, read Scripture, and tried to live out Jesus’ virtues—patience, humility, kindness—the more I found myself changing. I began to see how much I needed those qualities in all my relationships, not just with my goddaughter. It wasn’t about perfection; it was about growth, about becoming more like Christ every day.

One of the biggest changes was learning to love unconditionally. Jesus was never too busy to listen, forgive, or serve, and I found that prioritizing these things made me a better godmother and a better person. This transformation hasn’t been instant, and I don’t always get it right, but I know that each day, I’m being shaped more into His likeness.

The journey of transformation in Christ is ongoing, and while I’m not perfect, I know that with every step, He is working in me. We all have opportunities to let His love shine through us—whether it’s in our responsibilities, the people we serve, or the quiet moments of prayer. Let’s embrace the transformation He offers and let His love shape us into who He created us to be.


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Seventh Sunday in Ordinary Time

When I was seventeen, I was over the moon to be asked to be a godmother. My little cousin was the most adorable baby girl I’d ever seen, and I immediately started dreaming about all the fun things we’d do together. I imagined watching her take her first steps, hearing her first words (hopefully my name!), taking her to the playground, Mass, her first communion, and family vacations… all those precious moments we hope to share with the little ones we love.

But as excited as I was, I also felt the weight of the responsibility. Being a godmother isn’t just about being a fun and loving figure in her life; it means setting an example, showing her what Jesus’ love, kindness, and grace look like in action. It hit me that I had to be intentional, about my words, my actions, and my attitude—not just for me, but for her too. How could I possibly reflect Christ’s love to my little cousin?

In 1 Corinthians 15:45-49, St. Paul tells us that through Christ, we are invited to bear the image of the heavenly man. This transformation isn’t just an idea; it’s a reality that should manifest in our lives. Becoming a godmother was more than I expected—it became a personal journey of growth. I found myself reflecting more on my actions, my relationship with God, and how I could become more like Christ—not just for my goddaughter, but for Him.

The more I prayed, read Scripture, and tried to live out Jesus’ virtues—patience, humility, kindness—the more I found myself changing. I began to see how much I needed those qualities in all my relationships, not just with my goddaughter. It wasn’t about perfection; it was about growth, about becoming more like Christ every day.

One of the biggest changes was learning to love unconditionally. Jesus was never too busy to listen, forgive, or serve, and I found that prioritizing these things made me a better godmother and a better person. This transformation hasn’t been instant, and I don’t always get it right, but I know that each day, I’m being shaped more into His likeness.

The journey of transformation in Christ is ongoing, and while I’m not perfect, I know that with every step, He is working in me. We all have opportunities to let His love shine through us—whether it’s in our responsibilities, the people we serve, or the quiet moments of prayer. Let’s embrace the transformation He offers and let His love shape us into who He created us to be.

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