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Guidelines for the Lenten Penitential Season

January 14, 2026 

Dear Sisters and Brothers in Christ, 

During the days and weeks of penance that lie ahead — from Ash Wednesday, February 18, 2026, until Holy Thursday morning, April 2, 2026 — the Catholic Church throughout the world commemorates the penitential season of Lent ending with the Sacred Triduum of Holy Week. The model Jesus gave us for “these forty days” was his own experience in the desert and the temptations that followed him there where he encountered Satan face to face.  And yet, Jesus, there in the desert — alone, fasting and in intense prayer — beat back the devil and triumphed over temptation, as strong and as unrelenting as it was throughout those forty days. 

We enter the desert of Lent like Jesus, led by the Holy Spirit, to face our devils, our temptations head on.  But we are not alone.  The Lord Jesus Christ is with us.  And so, too, is the Church, the entire community of faith observing Lent.  Here is what the Catholic Church in the United States requires of us as baptized Catholics: 

  1. The days of FAST (only one full meal) and ABSTINENCE (no meat) are Ash Wednesday and Good Friday.  No dispensations are granted on these solemn days except for reason of sickness or those provided in canon law below.  ALL OTHER FRIDAYS OF LENT are days of ABSTINENCE. 

The pastor of a parish has the faculty to give a dispensation to individual parishioners in his parish and the Diocesan Bishop alone has the authority to dispense groups of Catholics but only for a serious reason. 

  1. Those who are automatically dispensed from fast and abstinence regulations outside the age limits noted below include: the physically or mentally ill, especially individuals suffering from chronic illnesses such as diabetes.  Also included in the dispensation are women who are pregnant or nursing.  In all cases, common sense should prevail, and ill persons should not further jeopardize their health by fasting. 
  1. Those between the ages of 18 and 59 are obliged to FAST (only one full meal) as noted above.  From the age of 14, people are also obliged to ABSTAIN: this obligation prohibits the eating of meat, but not eggs, milk products or condiments of any kind, even though made from animal fat. 
  1. The obligation to observe the laws of fast and abstinence is a serious one for Catholics.  Failure to observe one penitential day in itself is not considered a serious sin.  It is the intentional failure to observe any penitential days at all, or a substantial number of penitential days, that must be considered a serious matter. 
  1. The obligation, the privilege really, of receiving the Eucharist at least once a year — often called “Easter duty” — for those in the state of grace should still be fulfilled during the period from the First Sunday of Lent, February 21-22, 2026, to Trinity Sunday, May 30-31, 2026. However, the Church’s law does permit this precept to be fulfilled at another time during the year when there is a just cause. 

I want to encourage all Catholics, especially those who are conscious of serious sin, to go to Confession and to make use of the sacrifices and traditions that have always been part of our Lenten practices in the Church. 

We do, indeed, fast and pray with the Lord Jesus and with our fellow Catholics.  May this Lent be a time of Penance leading to grace and joy for us all at Easter. 

Sincerely yours in Christ, 

Most Reverend David M. O’Connell, C.M. 

Bishop of Trenton 

NB FOR PASTORS: 

  1. Ashes should be distributed in an appropriate liturgical manner on Ash Wednesday, February 18, 2026.  “Drive-thru” distribution and self-imposition of ashes (leaving ashes in Church for people to impose on themselves) are prohibited. 
  1. Please instruct your parishioners concerning these Lenten Regulations in your homily, announcements, bulletins, or websites/social media on the weekends of February 7-8, February 14-15 or earlier if you prefer.  
  1. The Rite of Election is February 22, at 3:00 pm in the Co-Cathedral. Catechumens are required to attend unless excused by the Bishop at the request of the pastor. 
  1. General Absolution:  General Absolution is NOT permitted in the Diocese of Trenton without the Bishop’s permission in accordance with the provisions of canon law.  Encourage individual Confessions during Lent. Priests may contact me if there is a concern. 
  1. The Easter Vigil is not to be celebrated before dark, that is, not before sunset (7:30 pm EST). 

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