Taking an opportunity to spend
time at various parishes of the Diocese, Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M.,
celebrated Mass for the Third Sunday of Lent in St. William the Abbot Parish,
Howell, and the Fourth Sunday of Lent in St. Catharine Parish, Holmdel.
On March 20 in St. William the
Abbot, he spoke about the need for a personal assessment of how one’s Lenten
journey is proceeding.
“We might pause to ask ourselves,
‘how am I doing? Have I made progress in my spiritual life during these past
three weeks?’” he queried. “‘Have I accomplished anything to advance my
relationship with God and with others?’ If you have, that’s a blessing. If you
have not, it’s not too late. And if you’ve stalled, plug in the charger, get
moving again.”
Pointing out the journey the
Sunday Lenten Gospels have taken thus far – beginning with the temptation of
Jesus in the desert, followed by the Transfiguration on Mount Tabor, the Bishop
drove home the point of conversion exemplified in the Third Sunday’s Gospel.
“Jesus talks about the fig tree …
again and again, year after year, it bore no fruit. What was the point?” he
asked. “People wanted to cut it down; the gardener said, ‘wait, give it a
chance.’ He gives it one more opportunity to bear fruit.
“So we have to ask ourselves
today… are the fig trees of our own Christian lives bearing fruit?” Bishop
O’Connell continued. “Has the time come for us to put it on the line, once and
for all, as Jesus said in the Gospel? How many more chances will we get? … What
are we waiting for?”
He stressed the need to make Lent
mean something more, and not to waste any time making it count.
“It’s not just about going
through the motions,” he said. “Lent is about being the person that God has
called us to be. Lent is about believing in the possibilities, to be better, to
be holier, to be converted in heart and mind by the conviction of faith.”
In St. Catharine on March 27,
Bishop O’Connell focused on the Gospel’s themes of reconciliation and
restoration.
The parable of the prodigal son,
he pointed out, is third in a series of parables Jesus gave in response to his
critics, which “invite us to consider something very important in our lives:
the depth of God’s compassion, his mercy and forgiveness.”
While the Pharisees taught a
scrupulous observance of the law, he said, pointing out how Jesus’ disciples
did not wash before eating, Jesus responds with his approach to the law.
“When we think of the [prodigal]
son, do we say, ‘how bold and audacious for him to go to his father and say
“gimme everything you got before you die.”’ Didn’t indignation rise up within
us?” Bishop O’Connell observed. “Having been disgraced by the younger son, the
father just waits … for a change of heart. And when he sees his son coming back
from a distance … all that’s important to him is that this lost son has
returned.”
We can relate, he continued, to
the resentment felt by the older, faithful son. However, “there’s a very
important lesson in today’s Gospel: Love conquers all,” Bishop O’Connell said.
“The mercy of God is there for each and every one of us. As we live our lives,
as we make our mistakes, as we sin, the father is there ready with open arms to
welcome us back.
“And when you think about it,
especially during Lent,” he continued, “as we’re spending some time in penance
… it’s very important for us to realize that God’s mercy, forgiveness and
compassion and love is a source of our joy in life ... and it’s revealed to us
in Jesus Christ our Lord, through his passion, his death and his Resurrection.”